Pregnant Women in the Club...What are YOU Thinking For Real????

This I just don't understand for the life of me. You CANNOT think that its ok for you to constantly inhale smoke, cigarette or weed at that, and be in an environment where you could possible harm yourself and your child. I like to club don't get me wrong, but um...whenever I do decide to have children...I will be sitting my happy ass down at home. It's one thing to be in club when your barely showing (that's still not acceptable), but to be in there when you look like you're ready to pop makes no damn sense. Then these usually are the same ones that are in the club smoking a cigarette. ARE YOU STUPID???? I mean really where is DHR when you need them, because I need for them to take your child as soon as you give birth. It makes no sense. I think this just goes into account for what kind of people are having children: SELFISH PEOPLE. I mean once you conceive a child, it is no longer about you; and women have to start living differently immediately because you are not only caring for yourself, but another life.

I just don't understand. Then what baffles me even more, is that you have men attempting to spit game at these women. What in the hell??? I mean it's clear that she has some baggage her and she doesn't have show good judgement or common sense. Le sigh. I just don't know to be truthful. Everytime I see a pregnant person in the club I just shake my head and say.....What are YOU Thinking For Real????

Drunk...excuse me...Wasted People...What are YOU Thinking For Real????

The picture above is a perfect example of why you shouldn't get wasted. On my WONDERFUL vacation in Las Vegas, I happened to witness the damaging effects of alcohol. Me and my friends were sitting out side of the club, which happened to be inside of the casino so we were sitting in the lounge, when this chick decides to pull down her pants piss on the floor. And we were in Ceasar's Palace where all the high end crap is. And her friend sat right there and let her do it. The kicker to this whole incident was that the bathroom was not even 50 feet away. How do you let your self get that drunk? Not only do you make a fool of yourself, but you're disgusting as well.

Now I do drink and I have been drunk before but just not wasted. Personally I don't like the throwing up feeling that you get after drinking WAAAAYYYYY too much. Plus I don't get the point of drinking until you freaking pass out. How do you get so drunk to where you don't know that someone is putting crap like tampons in you mouth. And I think that it's even worst when women get that kind of drunk. There are so many things that can happen to you and you won't even remember it. It's cool to drink, people just need to learn how to drink in moderation. People are crazy in this world seriously. I won't continue on this rant, just thought that I would share my feelings on being wasted.

So the next time you see yourself getting to point where you can't remember what the hell is going on because you're WASTED ask yourself....What Are YOU Thinking For Real???

Women's Attraction to the Dope Boy/Thug.....What are YOU Thinking For Real????

Now I know it may seem that I'm bashing the so-called 'dope boy', but I'm just trying to figure out what is so appealing about them. I kind of touched on women's attraction to them on the college thugs post, but I was questioning the males' interest in portraying the 'dope boy/thug'. I don't understand what the attraction to them is. I went through a stage when I was younger, and I mean teenage years, where I wanted me a 'bad boy', I didn't necessarily want a dope boy. Like really what is attractive about the picture above, true enough he may be a bad example but let's just go with the flow here lol.

Many times women complain about not being able to find a good man, but if this is what you are attracted to what do you expect. He's selling dope, running from the police, and he can't take you anywhere that may draw attention to him. What makes you think that this is functionally ok? You are destined for problems. Fantasia made a song about having a hood boy...I got one thing to say about that....YOU CAN HAVE IT. I ain't the one lol. I mean I have enough going on in my life to add on the unneccessary stress that the dope boy will bring. Now there is someone for everyone and I can hear people saying that I am stereotyping this type of guy, but then again it's the truth. If you are 'trapping', there isn't too much good that's going to come from it. Let's just be honest here.

Now to answer the question of what attracts women to them. Most 'dope boys' are seen to be somewhat protective of their women, and let's face it: women like to feel protected. But hell, you can get that same protection from a guy with a college degree. It's like dudes that run the streets get an extra boost of masculinity in some women's eyes. These same women feel that quite a few guys that are in college, are how do I put this: gay. Yea, pretty riduculous. I guess that feeds into the factor of the so-called 'college thugs'. The irony of it all is that these same guys that they give an extra boost of masculinity, usually get locked up and guess what...yep they're doing the do with Big Ben their cellmate. So to all the women that LOVE themselves the dope boy....What Are YOU Thinking For Real????

Just letting You Know...

I'm going to try and do two post a week, with the exception of next week. I'm going on VACATION YAY!!!!!!! But um yea lol, the semester is over so I will post about random things that just happen to be on my mind. If you have something that you want me to talk about feel free to let me know. I appreciate everyone's support and remember to ask yourself: What are YOU Thinking For Real???

Free Food....What are YOU Thinking For Real??

What is it with the free food thing? I mean really. The guy in the picture is at the establishment that is currently going through the wrath of giving out free food. Now don't get me wrong. I did print off some of the coupons, but I'm not about to curse people out over something that is FREE. I mean I'm not paying for it, so why should I get mad. Then we have the infamous lines that wrapped around blocks for Popeye's Chicken, and that wasn't even free. I just don't know some days. I mean you are actually letting the news capture you looking a COMPLETE FOOL. One lady screamed at the intercom, only to be screaming at no one and looking a complete fool.

People let's not get so excited about things when we hear the word free, or if it's damn near free. The real question that people should ask is where all of this chicken is coming from. I mean we're selling 8pcs for $4.99 at first. Then we're giving away 2pcs. Is there a surplus of chicken? If so, why won't it go on sale in the store. Or is this chicken that's about to expire and they just need to get rid of it and decided to make a quick buck? These are the real questions if you ask me. Not "why did they run out of chicken", or the statement "they knew about this two months ago they should've been prepared". I mean really. The next time you feel yourself getting mad over something FREE ask yourself this question: What are YOU Thinking For Real????

Thugs in School....What are YOU Thinking For Real????

Sesame Street is harder than 'Thugs in College'.My roommate kind of inspired this post. I almost forgot about it to be truthful and I don't know how. I don't understand how you can believe that you are a thug but yet you are sitting next to me in my 300 or 400 level english course. I don't understand what the appeal of being a thug is. I mean really. Most thugs end up in jail at some point in time during their life. They sell drugs. They are always worried about whether the police, excuse me 5-0 as they like to call it, are going to be this place or that place. You don't have time to go to class.

What is really the appeal about being a thug or let's go with another term 'DOPE BOY'? I mean why do you want someone that can't even take to certain places for fear of getting arrested. The sad thing about being a 'dope boy' is that they usual are pretty smart. For you to think of make $2000-3000 a week, and to keep up with who owes you, shows signs of businessmen, but in the wrong aspect. But then again, you really aren't smart enough to not blow your money on BS that calls attention to yourself. That kind of thing seems to be common sense, but I digress, I'm getting side-tracked from the topic at hand. My slight add kicking in lol.

Like I was saying, there's no way that you're thugging and you sitting next to me in my Business Statistics class getting 100s. That's just not logically. I mean really, let's think about it here. I'm a thug but I'ma fill out this Financial Aid form so I can make sure that I take this Organic Chemistry class, and I gotta make sure I get this book for class too. I mean really, stop trying to be something that you're not. Why can't we just strive to be an educated and enlightened generation? Why do we glorify things that should be looked down upon? No one should want to be a thug, I mean really. The general reasoning behind 'Dope Boys' And 'Thugs' doing what they do is because they don't have the opportunities that others have, or excuse they feel that they don't. They just made bad choices. So I say this to the so-called 'Thugs' and 'Dope Boys' in school....What are YOU Thinking For Real???

G's on TV.....What are YOU Thinking for Real???

The next thing that I feel like is absolutely ridiculous on T.V. is the apparent trend of making most black men look like some type of Thug on T.V. First of all, there are no thugs on t.v.. I really hate to burst anyone's bubble, but I mean let's be real. Besides the people that we see on First 48, there aren't any thugs on t.v.. MTV's invention of G's to Gents has to be one of the biggest jokes. I mean for all these people to be so-called thugs, why are they always crying and fighting over stupid stuff. I'm not saying that men can't cry, but I mean over dumb stuff. This past season's winner cried on like every show. What the crap? For one, why do you have to be a thug to even want to better yourself. That's bs to begin with, and on top of that we want to have crying thugs on T.V..


Than we have the infamous MTB4. I have never seen more people, forget excluding this to just men, I mean people in general cry about STUPID CRAP. I refuse to cry because we got into an argument and now we're not mad at each other anymore. And I ABSOLUTELY refuse to go out in the street and cry because two of my friends are fight. I mean when I saw Robert on T.V. walking down the street in New York, and BOOHOOING....WHAT IN THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING MAN???? I mean for real. I understand that this your life long dream but I'm not getting ready to cry because two people are fighting. If anything I'm going to try and continue to get my paper, that's t.v. for you though.


The one thing that we need to understand though as a society is that what we see on T.V. is no where near a real depiction of life. The sad part is that younger generations are looking to T.V. for role models and that's not good when t.v. continuously portrays the idea that black are thugs. Than the ones that don't act like thugs are portrayed as being maybe on the DL. We have got to do better. I know that I'm probably going to make a lot of people mad with this one, but you know what this my blog so who cares lol. Half of these rappers that are supposed thugs, really aren't. I mean you have people coming out and saying that people were Correction Officers, and all sorts of other crap. Since when is having a job, looked down on. That's the problem, we would rather put people that continuously hurt the community on a pedistel instead of positive figures. This is just one of many of my rants that I'm just going to end with this question...What are YOU Thinking For Real???